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In Own Shop · by brother_kwesi · Mar 21, 2026

Print shop is profitable. Revenue up 28% year-over-year. I am taking distributions but I do not pay myself a real salary because it always feels like the business needs the money more. Wife pointed out last weekend that I have been working for free for parts of three years. She is right. Brothers who have been here — how did you make the call to set a real salary, and what number did you start at?

In Generational Money · by brother_marcus · Jan 20, 2026

Hardest financial decision I've made. My family in Accra depended on the monthly transfer. I was bleeding out trying to keep it up while saving for my own kids' future. Switched to a quarterly transfer with a clear conversation about what it would cover and what it wouldn't. The first three months were hard — both directions. By month six, everyone had adjusted, my savings rate went from 4% to 18%, and the calls home actually got warmer because they weren't about money every time.